The man was shocked. "What do you mean I don't have the priesthood! I was ordained by my bishop on 20 years ago! It's on my ordinance record."
The general authority responded, "Doesn't matter, you don't have the priesthood" and he showed the belligerent man this verse from the doctrine and covenants:
That they may be conferred upon us, it is true; but when we undertake to cover our sins, or to gratify our pride, our vain ambition, or to exercise control or dominion or compulsion upon the souls of the children of men, in any degree of unrighteousness, behold, the heavens withdraw themselves; the Spirit of the Lord is grieved; and when it is withdrawn, Amen to the priesthood or the authority of that man. (D&C 121: 37)He then explained to that husband, that since he wanted to use the priesthood to have unrighteous dominion over his wife, that he didn't have the power of the priesthood anymore. "AMEN to the priesthood or the authority of that man!" as it says.
To the now white husband, the leader also showed him this verse:
No power or influence can or ought to be maintained by virtue of the priesthood, only by persuasion, by long-suffering, by gentleness and meekness, and by love unfeigned. (D&C 121: 41)The leader explained that if he wanted to have any influence and real power with the priesthood, he need to exercise the Christ-like attributes in this verse.
Any man that would act degradingly to his wife or any woman, does not have these virtues, or any priesthood authority.




